Inner-Self J Martinez Inner-Self J Martinez

When Strength Becomes Distance

There's a woman who can hold anyone's weight except her own—who gives so reliably that no one thinks to ask if she needs anything back. This is an essay on the difference between strength and distance, and what it takes to let yourself be reached.

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Inner-Self J Martinez Inner-Self J Martinez

Why Women Are So Good At Hiding It

The woman who has been told she is too much has not been spared the work of hiding. She has simply learned to hide differently — not her silence, but the meaning of her noise. This is not a wellness problem. It is a cultural one.

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